Where does this undefined relationship leave me? | Short reflection

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There are no right or wrong answers. Where do you stand within this connection today? You do not need to overthink it.

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01When I want to define our connection, I feel as though I am asking for too much.

02Even when our time together is good, afterwards I do not know where I stand.

03I wait around their availability and postpone my own plans.

04Instead of asking for clarity, I stay quiet because I fear their interest might fade.

05I try to explain the gap between what they say and what they do.

06I try to work out whether our connection is mutual from messages or signs on social media.

07I become attached more to what this relationship might one day become than to what it is today.

08When I ask myself 'What do I want here?', I cannot give a clear answer.

If this connection never changed from how it is today, what would staying in it mean for you?Optional

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